Shopping for a man can be more arduous than a five-mile walk in 90-degree weather. Yet, it’s not unusual for women to want to romance their men as some people might think. The concept of romance is used in many commercial ads for jewelry, flowers, candies and other gifts to lure men into purchasing them for the women in their life.
There is no written rule that says a woman can’t send a man flowers. Quite often, receiving flowers can be so unusual as to make it stand out. Men like to hear “I love you” too – in fact, one way to show a man you really care might begin with a flower delivery and a card that could either include tickets to a favorite sporting event, comedian, play, musical or even just a note about reservations for two at a favored restaurant.
For men who like movies, plan a movie night for them – take them to see something they’ve wanted to see. Whether it’s an action flick or a romantic comedy or just a plain silly comedy, let their tastes dictate. Movies and flowers not quite what you’re looking for?
Show your man how much you love him with a little pampering. If he shaves every morning, offer to do it for him. If he likes his coffee a certain way, bring it in to him or have it ready for when he emerges. If you’re not home when he gets up, leave him little sticky notes with jokes, funny messages or just a simple I love you where you know he will see it.
It’s funny how doing little things often show how much you care and how interested you are more than huge, expensive gifts do. Romance is about communicating to someone else how much he or she means to you. It’s a demonstrative show or action, small or large that is designed to make them smile and feel wonderful. Romance is a gift that continues to give long after the actual exchange – because with each act of romance, it continues to grow.
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